Nothing kills my faith in humanity like how initially amusing jokes turn into disgusting cultural memes. See “ginger” and “friend zone.”

People are so obnoxious there is now an episode of Scrubs that is completely ruined because it introduced the term “friend zone.”

And there are still legions of guys who complain that women find men untrustworthy, and spurn their “good” and “nice” advances when…

…what challenges MY faith in men the most is when friendliness revealed to hide an ulterior motive.

I understand the pain of being attracted to someone and finding out they aren’t. It sucks. But you know what ELSE I understand?

I understand the raw hurt that comes from finding out someone only complimented your writing because he was working up a way to ask you out.

The shock of finding out that someone’s been saying you’re intelligent because you have nice breasts, but actually thinks you’re vapid.

The crushing blow of learning that the guy you’ve been confiding in, that you thought understood and loved you as a friend, only wanted sex.

The one guy I ever loved broke it off with “I’d rather be friends.” I cried all night. It didn’t hurt a tenth as much as that, though.

You think you know pain? That the “Friend Zone” hurts? Fuck you. Try living in the zone where you’re valued only for fuckability.

Believe me, the friend zone is far preferable to not being able to trust someone to be a real friend.


If your response to my last rant is “Respect manpain, that some guys lie doesn’t make wanting to be just friends acceptable behavior”…

Know that you’ve implied that someone who wants to be friends rather than lovers is behaving inappropriately, and that makes you an asshole.

That is outright saying that the only acceptable behavior for a woman is to say yes to sex. Which is not consent.

Ragnell, on the Friend Zone. 

Men don’t seem to believe it happens to women — that women become interested in anyone who doesn’t feel the same way about them.   Believe me it happens.  Rejection sucks, but not as badly as finding out that the friendship was a false front.

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“Quhzk.”

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“Quhzk.”

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just figured out how to reply to comments. Yay!! I’ve only been on Tumblr for how many months now and I just figured it out? Sorry if anyone responded to any of my posts before and I never replied. I just didn’t know how to do it.

REMEMBER I GOT YOU HOOKED ON METALOCALYPSE TOO, YOUNG LADY LMAO ILU YAE

Lmao, how could I forget? Here’s the good news: I’m sahrry :P Ilu too, Sae 

Maybe I’m just impatient, but…

I’m getting kind of anxious here. And desperate. I don’t want to, but if Nintendo is going to be a pile of dicks and not release Deep Crimson Butterfly in North America, I’ll consider buying the European version, even though the voice acting is dreadful.

Tagged ya! Here are the rules: Each tagged person must post ten things about themselves. You have to choose and tag ten people. Go to their blogs and tell them you tagged them.
  1. I’m pretty shy, both in real life and online. I’m not as bad as I used to be when I was a kid, but it kind of sucks when you’re nervous about talking to people you follow, even though they’re really cool people. Blargh!!
  2. I love video games. Some of my favourites include Prince of Persia: Sands of Time, The Legend of Zelda, old Spyro, old Crash Bandicoot, the Jak and Daxter series, Silent Hill, and Fatal Frame. I never get bored of these. I’m always looking for new horror games (as long as they don’t come after PS2) but I like side scrollers a lot as well.
  3. I. Love. Fatal Frame. Especially Crimson Butterfly. kiss-my-aspergers and I were at the mall a few years ago when he found Crimson Butterfly in the EB Games there. He was so excited because finding these games in stores is nigh impossible and he told me that I had to buy it. I hadn’t played any scary games at that point so I was a bit reluctant to get it, but I did end up buying it and simultaneously loving it and being scared shitless by it. We love the game (and the whole series) to the point where we even have nicknames for each from it, theorize about it, talk about funny Fatal Frame moments, and we can almost always find some way to reference it. We’re hoping (but doubting) that the remake, Deep Crimson Butterfly, will come out to North America, but Nintendo doesn’t love us, so we’ll see :(. Thanks, kma, for getting me hooked on this amazing series <3
  4. My favourite shows are Metalocalypse, Avatar: The Last Airbender (and Legend of Korra, too, I guess), The Boondocks, Clone High, Drawn Together, Robot Chicken and maybe one or two more that I can’t remember right now.
  5. Thanks to Metalocalypse, I started listening to metal and found my new favourite band, Amon Amarth. I don’t think I ever would have started listening to metal if it weren’t for Dethklok’s kickass music.
  6. My favourite movie of all time is Fight Club. But again, like with t.v. shows, I don’t really watch movies all that much. I’m that person who’s heard of a lot of movies, but never actually saw them. Also, I’m not ashamed to admit that I still watch animated Disney movies.
  7. I should be packing up everything in my dorm right now, but Tumblr is too distracting. Weeee!!
  8. I’ve been playing Katawa Shoujo off and on for the past couple of weeks. All of my feeeeeels!! Especially for Lilly. None for Shizune. 
  9. I’ve been watching some classic Youtube Poops again and I’ve gone back to reciting lines from them for no reason. I totally have a life.
  10. Butts.

Yay, I finally wrote this!!! I kept forgetting it was in my inbox until I was too tired to string some words together. That and I had a hard time thinking of stuff to say. So, yeah!